Thursday, November 8, 2012

An Open Letter to a Face Book, Friend:


At first, I was not going to respond to your recent comment, but I just could not ignore the issue you attempted to make by implication. I do want to thank you for this “teaching moment” that will allow me to address your comment and hopefully enlighten someone. For this reason, you shall remain anonymous! Let me say from the start, I do not believe you are a racist when you said that “you people are just voting for Obama because he is black!”  However, I do believe that racism is alive and well in our United States of America, and you and I daily bare its effects and intrusion into our lives. I believe you are just as much a victim of racism’s misinformation as Black Americans are of its bigotry. There is so much misinformation about people of color in general and President Obama in particular. I believe you are just a misinformed individual!

 I think my friend if you would set aside your presuppositions about both, and look with an inquiring fair mind; you will find things are not as you have been led to believe. You will find that Black Americans have the same concerns about our country and our families’ welfare as any other American ethnic group. You will find that we are among the most loyal and patriotic supporters of our country. We have bravely served in each and every war. We are the first to give our lives in the defense of America from her enemies, since the inception of the 13 colonies. Although we come home from these wars wounded, broken and torn, to face still racial discrimination and hatred, we still volunteer to enlist. We have always had to fight on two fronts. While fighting in foreign countries, we are still fighting in America to be respected and treated equally under the flag we fought and died to protect.

 It is ironic that as black soldiers fighting for America, there was a time when the armed forces were segregated because of racism. However, we could die on the battlefield, side by side with those same soldiers who held racist opinions of us. There is an old Native American idiom that wisely says, “Before judging someone, walk a mile in their moccasins.” We have revised it to say “Walk a mile in my shoes.” However you say it, its meaning is clearly the same. “Walk a mile in my shoes” and you will know how it feels to be me!  Be in my place, be in my position, be in my situation and see how it is with me! Then you will know what it’s like for me! In short, put yourself into someone else’s position, before judging them! I cannot help but feel if we all followed this advice, we would not have the problems of getting along with one another, we have today! I wish everyone could really study our history and walk a mile in the shoes of average Black Americans.

I have to assume that you are not of Black American origins, or else you would not have made the statement that you made. You think you have us all figured out, but you really don’t have a clue. By you not being a person of color, you will most likely never fully understand why Black Americans would vote for a candidate because of his race. Let me see if I can enlighten you a little on the subject. Now, I won’t pretend to speak for all Black Americans. However,  I can give you a consensus of how people in my circle of influence feel to a greater or lesser degree about your comment. Just so you know, my own family has members from many nationalities. Racism is not a part of our family structure! The overall consensus of those whom I shared your comment with is that, A) Your statement smells of racism. And B) You don’t know enough about Black Americans to be making such a general, dogmatic statement!

Now for me personally as an individual, your statement does have some merit! If I had to look at my voting in the last two elections for President; in terms of percentages; I would say that I voted my conscience 70/30 for Barack Obama. Yes, I voted for him 70% because I felt he was the best and most qualified person to lead this country; out of all the candidates running. And yes, I voted for him 30% because of his ethnicity and because I felt it was about time for change!   For the first time in my history of voting, I could see that my vote was going to count for something! I no longer felt disenfranchised! My little individual vote was going to make a difference. My vote would be a part of making history in America and the world. Believe me, Black Americans are not stupid! Barack Obama would not have gotten our vote, if he was just another “run of the mill” candidate! Everyone saw something different in him! We saw something special! We saw Hope and Change!

You see my friend, your people have never been in a situation where they where slaves of another race of people in recent history. Your people have never been kidnapped from their homeland; sold into slavery and accorded the worst treatment any human could put upon another human being. Your people have never been totally stripped of their cultural identity, language, mores and religion; then forced to adapt to the culture of another race. Have your people ever been considered as the chattel property of another; to be sold, beaten, raped and murdered at will, by people professing to be Christians?  My people have! Have your people been lynched, burned alive, drugged by a car until the head separated from the body?  My people have! Have your people had their homes and churches bombed and set afire in effort to intimidate them? My people have! Have they had to look in the face of hatred from a mob of hundreds, knowing they were going to be horribly murdered at any moment? I don't think so!

Your people have never been bred like live stock to their own fathers, mothers, sons and daughters, to produce more slaves. Have your people been forced to stand by and watch their women be raped; their men be killed in horrible ways, just for the sport of it? My people have? Your people have never been denied their civil rights or for that matter, human rights. Have your people had to endure being fire hosed and attacked by police dogs, because they were demonstrating for civil rights? My people have!  Your people have never had to face uniform racial discrimination in every aspect of their lives; or live in ghetto environments; or watch police randomly kill your people for no good reason. My people have! This is the way Black Americans have had to experience life in America, for many hundreds of years. This is the Black Experience!

If your people had experienced any of these things, you would have a totally different appreciation for human life and the right to vote. You would understand what a genuine joy it is to see someone of your race; who has survived all of this, rise to the highest office of the land.  You would know what it is to feel that overwhelming since of pride bring water to your eyes; every time you witness him leading and moving in the circles of government and world affairs. If you could only “walk a mile in our shoes,” you would want to honor the sacrifice of people who willingly gave their lives, so that we could enjoy the privilege of voting today. You would understand what a privilege and honor it is to vote for a Black Man in this day and time!

Yes, you would vote the collective will of your people, to help one of their race achieve success, in a world where everything has been purposely stacked against them. Your heart and mind would lead you to cast a vote for one of your people and make a difference in the lives millions who view this as true change. You must remember, in the last election and this election, President Obama was not elected solely on the votes of Black Americans. Had he relied solely on the Black vote, he probably would not have won election, in either primary. He was elected in both primaries by Americans of all shades, religions and nationalities! This was  democracy in action; producing a mandate that reflected the "expressed will of the people." Please join me in prayer for cooperation and respect by all parties of government; and this next four years will move us FORWARD to bring about a truly United States of America. We are all in this TOGETHER and I am still. . . . .

Your brother, In His Service

Min. Douglas

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