It is hard to predict with any
degree of accuracy what anyone like Dr. King, Malcolm X, Meager Evers or the brave
men and women who were beaten and killed in the struggle for civil rights; reaction
would be to the condition of Black Americans today! My best guest would be: If they read a newspaper or viewed the
television news of today, they would see that Black Americans are still at the
bottom economically, educationally, professionally and socially. They would see
3rd and 4th generations of black families still
subsisting on welfare and living in concentration camps (aka The Projects) They
would see that discrimination and racism against Black Americans is still
prevalent today. They would see the decline of black businesses in the community,
which use to provide employment for our youth and older people. They would see
the proliferation of non-black owned businesses, sucking the economic life out
of our communities, by taking the money and run, business practices. They would
see how the deliberate infusion and use of drugs has devastated the lives of
individuals and families in our community. They would see how we have allowed
criminals and thugs in gangs to intimidate and hold whole neighborhoods captive.
They would see the blatant disrespect our youth show to their parents, teachers
and elders. They would see our
deteriorating schools with understaffed, underpaid teachers, attempting to
educate in overcrowded classrooms. They would see how our able body young men
are dropping out of school to stand on corners selling drugs and look like
clowns wearing their pants below their butts. They would see black on black
crime and the random killing of one another because of some
imagined turf or color of clothing. They would see our young ladies dressed
like prostitutes, tongues pierced, tramp stamps and tattoos all over; smoking a
blunt, while cursing at her child she is dragging down the street, with another
baby in her arms. They would see the increase in child molestation and sexual
assaults in our families that go unreported because “It is family business.” They
would see babies’ daddy’s out at the strip clubs with their “Boys” getting lap
dances; while they won’t pay child support for the children they’ve fathered. They
would see our immature young mothers are neglecting their children in an
attempt to have a relationship with some abusive, worthless knucklehead! After viewing all of this, I think they would
ask themselves, “Is this what died for?
Is this what I underwent fire hoses, police dogs, clubbing, insults and
being spat upon, for? Is this what the sum total of achievement, I laid down my
life to achieve for my people?” The
answer does not have to be YES! WE CAN
CHANGE THIS PICTURE!
Your brother, In His Service
Min. Douglas
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
THE FATHERHOOD OF GOD!
Today is my father’s birthday! Birthdays
and Father’s Day are a time when sons and daughters will remember their Fathers
and celebrate their lives, whether living or dead. They will recall favorite
memories of times spent with their Fathers throughout their childhoods and
adult lives. For some, these will be happy memories. For others, not so happy,
due to the loss of their father or of issues they had in their relationship
growing up. I don't have either good or bad memories concerning my biologic
father because I never knew him in life. He was out of my life a year or so
after my birth. Tragically, he never made contact with me or my family ever
again! I received bits and pieces about him from my mother over the years. Some
positive and some negative; but always with a tone of hurt in her voice. To her
mind he was the bad guy dressed in black, in all the cowboy movies of the day.
To my mind, he was the hero galloping in on a white horse, guns blazing,
dressed in white. The stories about him and their failed relationship only
fuelled my desire to know him all the more. As it turned out, I would spend
most of my young adult life searching to find him.
As a child growing up, I had lots of
questions and fantasies about my father, with what little information I could
get out of my mother about him. He was a subject we whispered about and kept it between her and I. My mother had gone into the military after I was born and
left me to be raised by my grandmother. While in the military, she met and
married another soldier. Upon their discharge from the service, I came to live
with them when I was 5 years old. Her husband was a cruel man and an abusive
step-father to me and her. I have too many hurtful memories of his abuse and
mistreatment of us both.
After receiving one of his beatings, I
would lay on my bed crying. I would call out my father’s name and pray that my
real father would come and kill him for mistreating me and take me away to live
with him. At school, I would lie to the other kids about my real father. I did
not want them to know the daily horror I was living with my step father. They
knew something was not right, because my step father never came to any of my
activities at school. I would make up fantastic tales of my real father being
away in the military doing heroic things. To counter their bragging about their
fathers and their relationship and activities with them; I would lie and claim
the same things, only with my uncles. How I envied those kids who had fathers
at home! I envied them so much!
After years of personal inquiry, running
down leads, telephoning people and numerous private investigators, I finally
located him when I was 39 years of age. Instead of the news sparking a joyous
celebration, it was a very sad disappointment for me. I found out my father had
passed away 6 years previously. Strangely, that news buckled my knees, as the
voice on the other end of the phone informed me. It was as if he had just died.
It was like a blow to my face! It hit me the same as if I had known him and had
a relationship with him. I felt devastated! All of my hopes for reunion with
him just exploded into vapor. My dreams of touching him, talking with him and
laughing with him; vanished into thin air, just like that! I could not believe
that I would never know his voice or feel his arms embrace me as a father and
son. The truth of my father’s passing without me ever knowing him was so
difficult to bear, even at my adult age. It was a great disappointment for me,
because for so many years, I could only envision him alive. I had to see and
know for myself that this was true. I guess I was still holding onto hope that
maybe this was the wrong man, buried there!
All of my scenarios of our first meeting
were running through my mind as I walked to his grave site, carrying a bouquet
of flowers. It was a fresh, open wound for me, as I sat at his grave. A flood
of emotions engulfed me and I cried mournfully for him. The locked up
frustrations from my early childhood to this day, were finally released and
poured from my eyes in tears that saturated his grave. Primal moans came from
deep within me. For the first time in my life, I truly felt loss! This was up
front and personal! I was feeling the loss of a parent, I would never know! I
spoke to him there! I asked him all the questions I had wanted answers to for
so long, between my sobs. I told him of my great admiration and love for him! I
told him that I understood him and his actions of years gone by and that I
forgave him for not being in my life. I left it all there at his grave with the
flowers I had brought.
I found comfort in prayer! I prayed to
our heavenly father and asked Him to bless my real father there with Him. I
took comfort in the knowledge that God was with me through it all and that He
would never leave me. I believe that when I get to heaven one day, I will see
my biologic father there also and we will have the relationship we were denied
in this life. I was further comforted by finding out that I had three siblings
from my father. A son and two daughters. I was overjoyed to meet them and to
see a photo of my real father for the first time in my life. It was such a
relief to finally put a face on the man I had only dreamed about and not known.
I knew I was his son, because he, I and siblings all favored one another. And
then there was this inward feeling of knowing, when I hugged my sisters for the
first time. We hugged and kissed and cried together for a long time at the
train station, upon my arrival to visit with them. At last, I have some part of
my biological father that I can touch! I felt complete and excepted! I had
found my missing family. I did not want to let them go!
When I think back on this experience and
of the relationship I would like to have had with my father; I cannot help but
think of the original pattern for this relationship dynamic. Jesus told us what
that pattern was in the first two words of The Lord's Prayer, “Our
Father!" These two simple words, state so clearly what God's relationship
to us is. It is that of Parent and Child! He is our father and we are his
created children. It is in God, our Father, that we live and have our being. As
children, our fondest desire is to be like our fathers. As believers in Christ,
this is the same commandment Jesus gives to us in Matt. 5:48 “Be ye therefore
perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.” In other words,
strive to take on the spiritual qualities of the Father. Try to be like the
Father in love and goodness! Love one another, unconditionally and be kind to
one another!
Then there is one of the original ten
commandments that says “Honor thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God
hath commanded thee!” Deut. 5:16 -If we honor our earthly parents because they
gave us life and raised us up; how much more should we honor our Heavenly
Father, who is our source for EVERYTHING?? He is the perfect Father!
Omnipotent, He commands power over all His creation. There is none like Him. We
are His creation. Omnipresent, He indwells the hearts of His created beings. He
is ever present in our lives and wherever we are, He Is! Omniscient, He is all
knowing and knows everything about us. He shares our trials, tribulations,
sorrows and joys. He is our comfort and joy! His goodness, mercy and grace are
never ending blessing upon us.
As we remember our earthly Fathers and
reflect upon our relationship with them, do not forget the Father of Fathers!
Today and every day, remember God, our Heavenly Father and all that He has
brought us through. Jesus Christ the God-Man, our Lord and Savior, had unbroken
communication with His Father, through prayer. He acknowledges God the Father,
in all things. Jesus was God Centered! Studying God’s Word, gives us insights
into the nature of God and His creation because it moves us to contemplate
these things. As we reflect deeply on Truth, we begin to understand that all we
really need to know is, “In the beginning God.” This is the same message that
Moses gave, “Thou shall have no other Gods before me.” It is the same messages
as Jesus gave when he said “Our Father, which is in heaven”. We have everything
we need in The Fatherhood of God!
When all of creation is recognized as
being God centered, then all will be “right” with the world. We can know this
concept in mind but to know this fully we must live accordingly – in thought,
word and deed. The ability to be God centered is given only as we give Him
first place in our lives – in prayer, in meditation and in all our ways,
acknowledge Him. Just let Him be God! He is worthy of our praise and honor!
Father for the Truth that Jesus brought to us, that you are “Our Father”, we
thank you! May everything that has breath praise thy Holy Name! Amen.
Your brother, In His Service
Min. Douglas Daniels
KELLY THOMAS, MURDERED!
By now everyone has heard, either by
radio, television, internet or word of mouth, about the beating death of a
mentally ill man, in Fullerton, California recently. His death at the hands of
Fullerton Police Officers, makes me revisit those feelings of outrage, disgust
and sorrow, I felt viewing the Rodney King and Reginald Denhy beatings. King’s
by police officers and Denhy’s by thug rioters. There was a very noticeable
difference in the public’s response about this tragic incident. There were the
normal shouts of police brutality, that we normally hear, when something of
this nature occurs; and there were demonstrations against the Fullerton police
department. The difference was, the shouts and demonstrations came from a
predominately white community.
Where were Jessie Jackson, Al Sharpton
and Earl Ofari Hutchinson when the people of Fullerton, California were
screaming “police brutality” and demonstrating against the Fullerton Police
Department Officer’s, unjust beating to death of Kelly Thomas? Where were
they?? Normally, like sharks in the ocean, they would have smelled the blood of
a victim from wherever they were. Normally, they would have shown up at the
scene of the crime the very next day; regardless to where they had to fly from
in the world. Normally, they would have immediately held press conferences to
announce their outrage of the event and their intention to come and demonstrate
on behalf of the injured party.
I thought these gentlemen’s (and I use
the term very loosely with tongue in cheek) civil rights agenda and stance;
often defying authorities, were dedicated to defending the civil rights of “all
peoples”. Their previous histories show them before the television news
cameras, on popular television and radio shows and in the printed media,
decrying the injustice of the act against a person and rallying for
demonstrations against the injustices perpetrated by those in authority against
“its citizens”. It matters not whatever the cause of the injustice! Whether it was
motivated by racial, sexist, religious, political or sexual orientation bias,
these men were first to champion the cause of the injured party.
My question is, do they only champion
the injustices done to “people of color”? Or do they champion against injustice
to “all people”? Kelly Thomas was a white, homeless young man, who suffered
from schizophrenia. On July 5th, 2011 Kelly Thomas was brutally beaten into a
coma by six Fullerton Police officers. He never regained consciousness. After
several days in intensive care, his family was forced to make the awful
decision to remove him from life support and he passed away on July 10th. It
was not until July 28th that the first officer was taken off the street (the
other five were still kept in our streets enforcing the law?) and put on
administrative leaves. This was due to pressure from the community to expose
and seek truth about this alleged abuse of force.
Every Saturday since Kelly’s murder,
there has been a memorial rally and protest to show support for the Thomas
family and to stand up peacefully to protest against the unconstitutional
behavior of the six Fullerton police officers who beat Kelly Thomas to death.
When I went to Fullerton, I saw only two other black people there to support
this family. Where was the so-called “civil rights activist” at this event?
Nowhere to be found! Now maybe I got it all wrong; but I understand “civil
rights” to be about the “rights of citizens”! Citizens in America come from
many (too many to try and name) ethnic backgrounds and nationalities. So to me,
if ANY CITIZEN suffers injustice at the hands of authorities, charged to
protect them, it becomes a matter of concern for ALL CITIZENS!
All citizens include ourselves, our city
and government elected officials, the Clergy, Civic and Business Leaders. Just
EVERYONE who lives under the American Flag. For Black Americans, the group I
identify with, I believe we need to step out of complacency and take a stand
against injustice, wherever it occurs and to whomever it occurs. We cannot just
be concerned about ourselves when it comes to injustice. Who should know better
about injustice and bias than those who have endured it for near a half
century? How can Black Americans stand by and watch any other person be beat to
death like Kelly Thomas? How can we not raise our voices in anger and defiance
against such cruelty to another human being? What is wrong with Christians
today? Where is the love that we claim Jesus put in our hearts for one another?
Did Jesus command you to only show love to “your ethnic group”? NO! Where is
the outrage from the black community and Christians, at the inhuman brutality
suffered by Kelly Thomas? This mentally ill man was beaten and repeatedly shot
with a stun gun, until he was comatose. He died without ever regaining
consciousness.
Jessie Jackson and Al Sharpton are both
Christian Preachers and Civil Rights Activist. They should be the first to come
to the defense of the victims of injustice, regardless of their race. Earl
Ofari Hutchinson is a nationally acclaimed Political Analyst, Author and
Journalist. He has a national platform that could be used to bring national
attention to the plight of people who are the victims of injustice. Do you see
them reaching out to other races and communities offering their support to the
victims and their families? No! Could it be because it is not an issue where
they could derive some notoriety, monetary or political value from it? Could it
be because despite their claims to care about “all people”, they are really
only concerned with the plight of ‘black people”? I hope this is not the case!
By this time in our social and world
history, we should have learned that as human beings, we are all living this
life TOGETHER. Our individual actions today not only affect us; but have
nationwide and often times, world implications. As believers in Christ, we are
commanded to “love one another, even as God loves us.” Unconditional love does
not see color or race! It sees another child of God in need, hurt or suffering
injustice at the hand of another! The Christ indwelling us, demands that we
come to his aide and offer help and comfort like the Smaritan, in Jesus’s
parable. If our (so-called) leaders won’t extend the love of Christ to others,
so be it! That just means you and I should and must leave our complacency, and
show our love and support to ANYONE, suffering injustice. If we don’t do this,
we don’t have the right to call ourselves true Christians! We are hypocrites
the same as the Pharisee, Priest and Levite; Jackson, Sharpton and Hutchinson!
There is so much crime and suffering
going on in our communities. There is so much good that people of goodwill,
could do, if they would only trust God and reach out to help their fellow man.
Grieve for Kelly Thomas and his family! Allow yourself to express compassion
for another human being! One that God loves just as much as He loves you! The
officers, who took his life, have now been arrested and charged with murder and
manslaughter! Now, pray for comfort for his family and may justice prevail for
Kelly Thomas and his family!
Your brother, In His Service
Min. Douglas
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